
People who keep the TV one notch lower than comfortable, close doors softly, and apologize when someone else bumps into them aren’t always timid, they may have learned early that taking up audible space came with a cost
Adults who keep the TV one notch lower, close doors softly, and apologize when bumped into are often read as timid. The pattern is more specific: a learned acoustic strategy from childhoods where being audible carried a cost.













