
Nobody tells you that the most important relationship you’ll have in midlife is the one with the version of yourself you were 25 — and the work of going back, apologizing to her, and thanking her for getting you here is something the rest of your adult life is going to be quietly built around
Nobody tells you, in any of the standard accounts of what midlife is going to involve, that the most important relationship you will have during it is the one with the version of yourself you were at twenty.














